misunderstanding vs the power of frenship

for this entry, i will use abreviation for ppl's name..
it was on a saturday evening...
H asked me to go kl yumcha wif her frenz, i told her i couldnt make it cuz i had dinner wif uncle tan and miss hong which i haven seen since i came back...
i dunno wat time i would be finishing dinner and i dun even noe wat plans they have after dinner...
we went to victoria station for western food..which by the way is the lousiest western food we have ever tasted fyi...
told how ee i couldnt leave cuz they were going over to my plc for tea and chat..
so H said she might come over to my plc and i agreed...
then at about 11-ish she called and said she wont be coming over cuz she's tired..
then she told me about K.F which was pretty worrying...i read her blog a couple of days ago and it did sound worrying...
i wont mention wat was it about...so i called KF, couldnt find her but her aunt gave me her mum's mobile number so i called and she was wif her mum..
she was driving tats y she didnt pick up her mobile...
then we chat for a bit then decided to on9...

going into too much detail would make me upset so lets cut it short...
H, K.F, K.N, and myself were chatting...
one toking to one, one toking to 2, one toking to 3, and then 4 toking all together..
tats when the soup was stired....all of a sudden all ears were on me for some reason..
tat nite wasnt about me at all...H said tings which was painful and so did K.N...
to me it didnt mean anyting cuz he wasnt saying it to me...
but then H tot i am owayz on his side so things started to get ugly...
hurtful phrases and pouring tears...oh wat a nite....
if i had excused myself earlier i wouldnt have to go tru tat...
i tot tat my frenship wif H was over just like tat...
friendship means a lot to me and i noe tat whenever i have a prob i shd voice out...
but i have my own reasons to why i keep it all buried in me..
to me, telling my frenz my problems meaning asking them to be worried for me and i dun wan tat....
like H said, we all have lots in our plates oredi...
tats wat i meant, everyone have their own issues wif life, education, family and wat not...
so tat is why im whilling to listen and not to be listened...
i blieve tat i can handle my problems...if i cant then yea i will ask for a lending pair of ears..
anywayz, it wasnt a good nite for me...dun tink H had a pleasent nite either...

wat happened tat particular nite is history and im sure tis puddle of mud has brought all of us closer...
i blieve tat every frenship has its own stepping stones and so im sure no matter wat happens, i can resolve the matter...
friendships are no larfing matter so seriously, i hope ppl consider wat i say when i say it and not tink tat im an easy goer and forgives and forgets whenever someting happens...