Monday, September 08, 2008

cheaterz

"Cheating (also called gulling) is an act of lying, deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition. Cheating characteristically is employed to create an unfair advantage, usually in one's own interest, and often at the expense of others...."

"Infidelity can be defined as any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship, and is a breach of faith in an inter-personal relationship...."

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tis is a topic close to heart. ive been cheated on and i have cheated someone b4. its not someting im proud of but i admit to doing it. dun mean to but the reality is i did and im sorri for it.

i have tis fren. 'he' will remain as anonymous for now. ive been putting anonymity to a few ppl lately oni cuz i dun wanna be in any trouble wif anyone. not here to tok about me, its about 'him' today.

he just had his heart broken by his gf recently. the gal cheated on him wif his 'heng tai' (buddy/bestie). the buddy's name is UC. i noe this person and last time, we had a misunderstanding because of one of my past relationship. the gal cheated and it really broke my fren'z heart. not oni her heart but it made him lose trust in everyone even himself. he told me a lot of things about the relationship and how broken he was after that. i have to keep reminding him that he deserves someone a lot better than her but it just didnt get tru his ears. like i said b4, i dun understand how someone can still want to maintain/restart a relationship wif someone who has cheated on them. he kept saying tat he wants to have revenge on her, want her to feel wat cheating is like and how she had broke his heart.

he did plan a revenge and wat he did was just stupid and weird. he pretended to be another guy and he sms flirted wif the ex gf. and then today he decided to blow his cover and sms her telling her that it was him all along. can even explain to her why he did it. his answer was 'i just wan u to feel what being hurt and cheated on feels like'. her reply back was 'its ok, i dun mind being cheated on'. DENG...who says tat?? is she even human?? she is such a biatch saying tat, someone wif such a big EGO and thick face. and my fren can still apologize for flirting wif her. hmm...i dunno wat he's tinking really. can somemore say its game over wif her. AS IF man..he kept repeating himself but i wont blieve one lor. he say he apologized because he didnt wanna feel guilty. ok tat i can understand lor. he's just too humble i guess. i noe tat when he say game over, he will still tink about her, cry for her, whine about her, bla bla bla. im jus happy tat i was the first one he tot about when everyting is done. as a fren, i feel needed and i am just happy ppl appreciate me :P

his story resembles abit about my past relationship where i cheated. someone i cheated on can still accept me for who i am and wat i did. even wants to get back wif me. just so u noe, im very thankful for everyting.

i love u ppl!! mwahs mwahs....i luv u even more *winkz*

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