adapted frm ah kor's bloggy...

A rude awakening

Remember the times where you will always tell your partner that you will love them forever and ever or till death do u part. Well it doesn't take long for anyone to realise that it actually nothing but total bullshit!! Whilst some are still in that "i cant live without you" phase but some has alreday been slapped by this harsh reality.

Some people go on with their relationships for the sake of goin on. Some just can't pull out of it no matter how shitty or how many times their partners have wronged them. Some simply just live on a-day-to-day-basis waiting for it to end by itself be it mutual or ugly. Some will try to save their relationship even though they are very well aware that it will brings them nowhere. Well, different person different approach.

I guess most of this usually happens when a couple falls into what i would call a "comfort zone". This is the time where couples will take each other for granted. You will start to pick on their little mistakes, turn it into a big issue. Small little petty things will cause tempers to flare. Both ready to grab each other by the throat. In your mind you will start to calculate whether you guys can make it together in the future. After much calculation..plus minus here and there, this is when YOU are hit by the harsh reality that you and he/her are never meant to be together.

When that time comes, what are u goin to do?

OR RATHER

What can you do?